Hang around a few homeschoolers long enough and you’ll find they all use different curriculum and different ways to teach their children. I think it is because “Education is custom work.” John Taylor Gatto. I also think it’s because we are all wired differently. I also decided to write a post that I wish I had read when I started homeschooling. It’s okay to throw your curriculum away!
I work full time and I had a ton of bricks (self-imposed) on my shoulders to makes sure Jack had the world’s best education. As a result, I put a lot of emphasis on pre-packaged curriculum and workbooks. I think I was stuck pretty hard in the “public school is homeschool” mentality. It didn’t take Jack long to let me know that this isn’t how it’s going to work. Now, I agree with him. Workbooks aren’t that fun and quite frankly you can homeschool without them. So, we threw several to the side and we wing it with library books and research. I do keep the workbooks mostly for guidelines on where he should be grade wise. But, quite frankly he is way ahead in most subjects.
This catharsis of throwing away what a standard requirement is of my child has recently led me to realize that I have become an anti-helicopter homeschool mom. Don’t get me wrong I still use pre-packaged curriculum but now I use it sparingly. It’s nothing for us to go a whole morning or day only discussing Dinosaurs or Argentina and not really crack a book. I try and just incorporate what he is interested in with what he needs to do, like writing. If he was suffering or behind in reading, writing, or math skills maybe I would feel differently. But once I really gave up trying to control our homeschool day and forcing him to do the pre-packaged curriculum it really has become much easier. Is it going to be the end of the world that in 1st grade at the local public school they are learning about flowers while he is at home learning about the digestive system because he’s all of sudden obsessed with it… I doubt it. But this is our life, it’s mostly child-led learning and I’m very grateful we follow it.